This is any sexual activity or contact that happens without consent. It can include touching, kissing, or any other type of sexual behaviour.
Sexual abuse can be very harmful, both physically and emotionally, and it can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or race. It can lead to physical injuries, unwanted pregnancies, and sexually transmitted infections. It can also cause emotional problems such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
Types of sexual abuse
- Rape and other forced sexual acts
- Forced involvement in making or watching pornography
- Deliberately being hurt during sexual activity
- Your partner telling you they are using protection when they are deliberately not
- Taking videos or photos of intimate activities without your consent and sharing (or threatening to) release them if you leave the relationship or tell anyone.
Here’s what we have to SAY!
- If you feel uncomfortable with something someone is doing, tell them to stop. If they don’t stop, tell someone you trust.
- Don’t be afraid to say no. It’s okay to say no to anything you don’t want to do, even if someone says you have to.
- Trust your gut. If something feels wrong, it probably is.
- Sexual abuse is never the victim’s fault.
- Be aware of your surroundings. Don’t walk alone in dangerous areas; be aware of who is around you.
- Learn how to protect yourself online. Don’t share personal information with strangers online; be careful about what you post.
- Learn about healthy relationships. Talk to your parents or other trusted adults about what healthy relationships look like.
- If you have been abused, it is important to tell someone you trust. You are not alone. There are people who care about you and want to help.